POLYAMORY CAN BE HARD
LET'S MAKE IT EASIER

Polyamory Mentor

  • Master Jealousy: Instead of feeling overwhelmed by jealousy, you’ll understand and process it, turning it into a tool for growth rather than conflict.

  • Set Unshakeable Boundaries: You’ll establish boundaries that protect your emotional well-being and create mutual respect between you and your partners.

  • Communicate Like a Pro: No more frustrating conversations that lead nowhere. You’ll have the skills to clearly express your needs and desires.

No more feeling confused, frustrated, or alone in your journey - I'm here to help. My mentoring is rooted in personal growth, helping you not only build stronger relationships but also grow as an individual, so you can approach non-monogamy with confidence, clarity, and resilience.

Let's navigate challenges together

My mentoring services are designed to help individuals work through the complexities of non-monogamous relationships by uncovering insights that lead to real progress and personal development.Every session is insight-driven, meaning that we’ll always aim to uncover an ‘aha moment’—a shift in perspective that offers clarity and sets the stage for growth. You’ll leave each conversation with a better understanding of yourself, your needs, and your relationships.Mentoring sessions are tailored to your specific needs, goals, and challenges. Common topics addressed include:

  • communication skills,

  • boundary-setting,

  • jealousy management,

  • navigating agreements and expectations,

  • managing time and energy in multiple relationships,

  • addressing conflicts and misunderstandings,

  • exploring personal values and desires,

  • and enhancing intimacy and connection with partners.

Hi, I'm Juliana

I’ve been practicing non-monogamy since 2012 and have over a decade of leadership within the non-monogamous community.But more importantly, I’ve lived through the same challenges most people come to me with.I’ve experienced jealousy, insecurity, comparison, fear of loss, and the discomfort of navigating multiple relationships at once. I’ve made mistakes, had difficult conversations, crossed my own boundaries, and learned how to take responsibility for my reactions instead of blaming others.I’ve also built relationships that have lasted for years while continuing to evolve. I’ve been with one of my partners since 2012, another since 2021, and I’ve navigated periods of my life where I was maintaining five relationships at once.The tools I share today didn’t come from theory. They came from doing the work, over and over again, in my own relationships.Alongside that personal experience, here’s what I’ve been up to in the community:

  • I had a key roll in the formation of one of Brazil's largest in-person polyamorous communities. My trajectory was mentioned in the book "Unveiling Non-Monogamies" by Maria Silvério.

  • I produced, hosted and moderated polyamory discussion and mentoring events through my private group ranging from 15 to 100 people per session.

  • I co-created the first social space in Brazil focused on the non-monogamous community, becoming a national reference and inspiring others in other states.

  • Since 2024, I’ve been working one-on-one with clients, helping them navigate jealousy, communication challenges, and complex relationship dynamics.

This combination of lived experience and years of working closely with others is what allows me to quickly understand what’s happening beneath the surface and help you move through it.

Move Through Jealousy. Build Secure Relationships.

12 Week Mentorship Program

A step-by-step path to lasting change.

  • 12 weekly 50 min mentoring sessions

  • Unlimited support between sessions

  • Proven 5-step jealousy framework + space for your unique needs

  • Detailed summary of each session

Investment: $950 for the full 12-week program
Best if you’re ready for deep, lasting transformation.

One-Off Intensive

A focused breakthrough session.

  • Dive deep into your current struggle

  • Leave with immediate clarity + action plan

  • Great way to experience mentorship before committing

  • Detailed summary of the session

Investment: $150 for a 90-minute session
Best if you need clarity now or want to “test drive” working together.

Regulation Session

Support for moments when jealousy feels overwhelming

  • Immediate support to regulate intense emotional activation

  • Help slowing urgency so you can respond rather than react

  • Orientation back to your values, boundaries, and next grounded step

  • Brief summary of the session

Investment: $50 for a 30-minute session
Best if you are struggling and need support ASAP.

testimonials

"... life-changing journey of self-discovery”

"Juliana’s 12-week mentorship program was for me a life-changing journey of self-discovery. She helped me to embrace autonomy and freedom and let go of fear and jealousy. With her guidance, I’m experiencing more diverse forms of love and connection. Whether you are poly or mono, Juliana’s mentorship will help you grow into a confident and supportive partner."

Mary Anne A.

"I have become better at speaking more directly, with kindness...”

“I have found Juliana to be incredibly clear seeing. She noticed and pointed out to me that I was being very, very careful in choosing my words when talking to my partner about a touchy subject. Even though my first thought was "no I am not" I realized she was totally right on in saying that I was sugar coating and walking on eggshells. She then helped me to realize that even though my intentions were good, the approach was in fact not helpful as it just made my partner more nervous or worried about what I was trying to hide. I have become better at speaking more directly, with kindness, which has made me feel calmer and has greatly improved our communication. She has also helped me immensely with boundaries—how simple it can be to see them, speak them, and hold them."

Lisa Allee

"...expanding so many horizons.”

"I never imagined myself at 31 years old, rediscovering myself, expanding so many horizons.”

Luiza S. M.

"...I broke down barriers...”

“I was a little skeptical of [non-monogamy], as I only practically knew it in theory, but after the conversation we had I was able to see things in a lighter way, I broke down barriers that could have been preventing me from meeting someone nice."

Pedro C.

"I feel like I was able to become who I am today thanks to this..."

“My first [event] was back in 2017... And from then on it was a rollercoaster of feelings... New experiences, paradigm shifts, a new view on things... I feel like I was able to become who I am today thanks to this..."

Anna Clara G.

"...attentive listening, relevant notes, suggestions and correction/validation.”

“Telling you a little about my life, my love experiences..., and receiving your feedback that it seems like I'm on the right path... was exactly what what I expected from your [mentoring]: attentive listening, relevant notes, suggestions and correction/validation."

Pablo de A. S.

"I recommend the experience.”

"It's great to be able to have support from a female perspective on non-monogamous relationships. She is very helpful and attentive and appears to have a lot of experience and understanding on the subject. I recommend the experience."

Jon G.

"[Juliana's group] changed our way of seeing, thinking and acting. It changed mine a lot.”

"A myriad of new terms, studies, a new way of seeing the world, relationships, society, women, and life. [Juliana's group] changed our way of seeing, thinking and acting. It changed mine a lot.”

Rodrigo S.

Schedule regulation session

This session is designed to help you slow down, settle emotional activation, and orient toward your next grounded step — without rushing into reassurance-seeking, control, or impulsive decisions.Step 1: Click the button below to email me with “Regulation Session” in the subject line
Step 2: I’ll reply as soon as possible with availability
Step 3: Once payment is complete, we’ll schedule your 30-minute sessionAvailability note
Regulation Sessions are offered on a short-notice basis, depending on availability. While I aim to offer same-day or next-day sessions whenever possible, availability may vary.Important to know
Regulation Sessions focus on emotional regulation and orientation in the moment. They are not crisis support, therapy, or ongoing emotional containment.If you’re looking for consistent support or deeper work around jealousy patterns, the 12-week mentoring program is a better fit.

Your first session is my commitment to you, a gesture of support and empowerment, given freely and without expectation.

I believe that honest and clear communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, whether it's non-monogamous or otherwise. If you're ready to start working with me, great! Let's jump in!If you're still hesitant and have questions, schedule a discovery session and let's talk. This session is not a sales call; it's a genuine mentoring session aimed at getting to know each other better.During our time together, my priority is to understand your needs, desires, and goals for seeking mentorship. Likewise, I want you to have the opportunity to learn about me, my approach, and how I can support you in your journey.Compatibility is crucial in mentoring, just as it is in any relationship. That's why I don't believe in pressure or sales pitches. This session has no strings attached. You're free to end the session at any time, or if you're excited to continue, we can explore ongoing mentorship options together.

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  • Clarity on Common Pitfalls: Understand the most common rules in non-monogamy and why they often lead to misunderstandings and conflict.

  • Practical Self-Discovery Tools: Use guided questions to explore your own needs, boundaries, and relationship dynamics.

  • Alternatives for Healthier Agreements: Learn how to replace restrictive rules with flexible, trust-building agreements that foster open communication and reduce jealousy.

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POLYAMORY CAN BE HARD
LET'S MAKE IT EASIER

Helping you navigate polyamory through personal growth.

Why You’re Struggling to Make Your Relationships Work

  • Jealousy is consuming you.

  • You don't know what your needs are.

  • You have trouble setting boundaries.

  • You’re frustrated by unclear agreements.

  • Conflict and misunderstandings are frequent.

  • You're stuck in old patterns.

Hi, I'm Juliana

I have over a decade of leadership in the non-monogamous community. I played a key role in forming one of Brazil's largest polyamorous communities and produced and hosted events for groups of 15 to 100 people. I also co-created the first social space in Brazil focused on the non-monogamous community, which became a national reference and inspired similar initiatives across the country.

I’ve been practicing non-monogamy since 2012, and through that time, I’ve learned a lot about communication, jealousy, and personal growth. I’ve faced many of the same challenges as my clients.I GET it!

Master Jealousy

Instead of feeling overwhelmed by jealousy, you’ll understand and process it, turning it into a tool for growth rather than conflict.

Set Unshakeable Boundaries

You’ll establish boundaries that protect your emotional well-being and create mutual respect between you and your partners.

Communicate
Like a Pro

No more frustrating conversations that lead nowhere. You’ll have the skills to clearly express your needs and desires.

Let's do the work!

1. Schedule a free mentoring session

It all starts with a conversation. In our initial call, we’ll discuss your challenges, goals, and whether my mentoring approach is the right fit for you.

2. Do the Work

Through personalized mentoring, we’ll dive into the key areas you need to address—communication, boundaries, jealousy management, and more. This is where the real transformation happens, as we tackle your unique challenges together.

3. Experience Personal Growth

As you do the work, you’ll notice a shift. With the tools and insights you’ve gained, you’ll experience healthier, more fulfilling relationships and the personal growth that comes with it.

"...expanding so many horizons.”

"I never imagined myself at 31 years old, rediscovering myself, expanding so many horizons.”

Luiza S. M.

"...I broke down barriers...”

“I was a little skeptical of [non-monogamy], as I only practically knew it in theory, but after the conversation we had I was able to see things in a lighter way, I broke down barriers that could have been preventing me from meeting someone nice."

Pedro C.

"I feel like I was able to become who I am today thanks to this..."

“My first [event] was back in 2017... And from then on it was a rollercoaster of feelings... New experiences, paradigm shifts, a new view on things... I feel like I was able to become who I am today thanks to this..."

Anna Clara G.

"...attentive listening, relevant notes, suggestions and correction/validation.”

“Telling you a little about my life, my love experiences..., and receiving your feedback that it seems like I'm on the right path... was exactly what what I expected from your [mentoring]: attentive listening, relevant notes, suggestions and correction/validation."

Pablo de A. S.

"I recommend the experience.”

"It's great to be able to have support from a female perspective on non-monogamous relationships. She is very helpful and attentive and appears to have a lot of experience and understanding on the subject. I recommend the experience."

Jon G.

"[Juliana's group] changed our way of seeing, thinking and acting. It changed mine a lot.”

"A myriad of new terms, studies, a new way of seeing the world, relationships, society, women, and life. [Juliana's group] changed our way of seeing, thinking and acting. It changed mine a lot.”

Rodrigo S.

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I can’t afford a mentor?

I understand that cost can be a concern. Mentorship is an investment in your personal growth and your ability to navigate the complexities of polyamorous relationships. The insights and tools you gain can provide lifelong benefits, helping you avoid costly mistakes or emotional burnout. I offer options for different budgets, but I'm open to working with your specific needs.

Isn’t needing help with polyamory a sign that I’m doing it wrong?

Not at all! Polyamory presents unique challenges, and seeking guidance is a sign that you're committed to growing and improving your relationships. Even seasoned non-monogamous people encounter struggles like jealousy, time management, or boundary-setting. As someone who's been practicing non-monogamy for over a decade, I can help you address these challenges and grow both as an individual and within your relationships.

Can’t I just figure out polyamory on my own with free resources?

I offer many free resources that can certainly help, but it took me years to figure things out on my own. Mentoring fast-tracks your growth by pinpointing exactly where things can improve and providing focused advice, saving you years of trial and error. I also save you the time it takes to sift through endless information and research, offering clear, actionable steps specific to your situation.

How do I know mentoring will actually help me?

Mentoring is about real, actionable steps that lead to lasting change. Many of my clients have experienced significant breakthroughs in their relationships and self discovery. I combine practical tools with emotional support, giving you a solid foundation to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

My polycule is complicated. Can mentoring really help us?

No matter how complex your relationship structure is, mentoring can help you navigate it. Whether you’re managing multiple partners, nested relationships, or hierarchical dynamics, I have experience working with polyamorous and non-monogamous people in a wide variety of setups. I can help you untangle complicated situations and find clarity, balance, and harmony within your polycule.

What’s the difference between mentoring, coaching, and therapy?

Mentoring focuses on sharing lived experience and offering practical guidance specific to polyamory. Coaching is more goal-oriented, helping you achieve specific relationship outcomes. Therapy addresses deeper emotional or mental health issues, often dealing with past trauma or mental health conditions, and is conducted by licensed professionals.