POLYAMORY CAN BE HARD
LET'S MAKE IT EASIER
Polyamory Mentor
Master Jealousy: Instead of feeling overwhelmed by jealousy, you’ll understand and process it, turning it into a tool for growth rather than conflict.
Set Unshakeable Boundaries: You’ll establish boundaries that protect your emotional well-being and create mutual respect between you and your partners.
Communicate Like a Pro: No more frustrating conversations that lead nowhere. You’ll have the skills to clearly express your needs and desires.
No more feeling confused, frustrated, or alone in your journey - I'm here to help. My mentoring is rooted in personal growth, helping you not only build stronger relationships but also grow as an individual, so you can approach non-monogamy with confidence, clarity, and resilience.
Let's navigate challenges together
My mentoring services are designed to help individuals and couples work through the complexities of non-monogamous relationships by uncovering insights that lead to real progress and personal development.Every session is insight-driven, meaning that we’ll always aim to uncover an ‘aha moment’—a shift in perspective that offers clarity and sets the stage for growth. You’ll leave each conversation with a better understanding of yourself, your needs, and your relationships.Mentoring sessions are tailored to your specific needs, goals, and challenges. Common topics addressed include:
communication skills,
boundary-setting,
jealousy management,
navigating agreements and expectations,
managing time and energy in multiple relationships,
addressing conflicts and misunderstandings,
exploring personal values and desires,
and enhancing intimacy and connection with partners.
Get the Right Support for You
Individual Sessions: $100/50min session
Couples Sessions: $125/50min session
Group Sessions: weekly 90min group sessions. $100/monthPackages:
6 Sessions + Unlimited Support: 6 x 50min individual sessions, and unlimited text support. $500
Monthly Session + Unlimited Messaging: 1 individual 50min session/month, and unlimited texting. $150/month
Unlimited Messaging: unlimited texting. $75/month
Unlimited Emails: unlimited emails. $25/monthPrograms:
Jealousy Mastery: focused sessions for processing jealousy
Opening Up: focused sessions for couples opening a relationship
Intro to Polyamory: guidance for when you're just starting
All private sessions include a summary sent via email of all that was discussed during the session and actionable steps.Have other needs? Need social prices? Message me and we can figure it out.
Group sessions
If individual sessions aren’t the right fit for you, group sessions offer a unique way to receive support.Group sessions dive into key non-monogamous relationship challenges in a collaborative, supportive environment, while also focusing on individual challenges and providing tailored advice.After the sessions, you will:
Strengthen your communication skills
Learn to manage jealousy more effectively
Set and respect stronger boundaries
Feel more confident and empowered in your relationships
Learn through the experience of others
Meet new people and expand your community
Duration: On-going supportStructure: One 90min group mentoring session per week. Minimum of 6 people to start a new group, maximum of 10 people per group.Investment: $100/month (~$23/session)
Group sessions
Sign-up
To start a new group, there needs to be a minimum of 6 people. If there is an opening in an existing group, you may join. Groups are limited to 10 people to ensure each participant receives the attention and support they need for a productive experience.The group sessions take place once a week at a set weekday and time. Please be mindful of time zones.Please fill out the form below to receive notification when there is an available spot.
Jealousy Mastery
What if I told you that you could harness your jealousy and use it in your favor?Focused mentoring sessions where you will understand what makes you jealous, what needs aren't being met and ultimately how to meet those needs through self work and requests.After doing the work you will:
Understand the nature of jealousy
Recognize triggers and identifying underlying insecurities
Cultivate self-awareness and self-compassion
Develop strategies for managing jealousy in real-life situations
Communicate openly and honestly with partners about jealousy
Set healthy boundaries and agreements to support emotional well-being
Recognize your unmet needs.
Get your needs met.
Duration: Achieving meaningful change with this program requires time and commitment. For the best results, I recommend a minimum of 6 months.Structure: 1 mentoring session per week + unlimited support via text messagingInvestment: $390/month ($90/session)
Opening Up
You can transition to an open relationship with clarity and confidence.These focused mentoring sessions will guide you and your partner through the process of opening your relationship. You’ll gain the tools and insights needed to navigate this transition smoothly and successfully.After completing the sessions, you will:
Understand the motivations and desires behind opening your relationship
Establish clear agreements, boundaries, and expectations with your partner
Cultivate trust, security, and intimacy in the context of non-monogamy
Navigate jealousy, insecurities, and emotions that may arise during the transition
Develop effective communication skills for discussing sensitive topics and resolving conflicts
Explore ethical considerations, consent while practicing ethical non-monogamy
Option 1:
Duration: 6 Months (suggested)Structure: 1 couples mentoring session per week + unlimited support via text messagingInvestment: $475/month (~$110/session)
Option 2:
Duration: 6 Months (suggested)Structure: 1 couples mentoring session per week + 1 individual mentoring session per person every other week + unlimited support via text messagingInvestment: $865/month (~$100/session)
Intro to Polyamory
Start Your Non-Monogamous Journey with ConfidenceThis program will equip you with the knowledge, tools, and support to navigate this new relationship style with clarity and assurance.After completing these sessions, you will:
Understand the foundations and principles of polyamory and non-monogamy
Explore different relationship structures and dynamics within polyamory and non-monogamy
Navigate jealousy, insecurity, and other common challenges
Cultivate effective communication and conflict resolution skills
Negotiate agreements and boundaries that honor individual needs and desires
Build and maintain healthy, fulfilling connections with multiple partners
Address societal stigma, discrimination, and misconceptions about polyamory and non-monogamy
Duration: 1 MonthStructure: 4 mentoring sessionsInvestment: $360 ($90/session)
Hi, I'm Juliana
I've been practicing non-monogamy since 2012 and have over a decade of leadership within the non-monogamous community. Here's what I've been up to:
I had a key roll in the formation of one of Brazil's largest in-person polyamorous communities.
I produced, hosted and moderated polyamory discussion and mentoring events through my private group ranging from 15 to 100 people per session.
I co-created the first social space in Brazil focused on the non-monogamous community, becoming a national reference and inspiring others in other states.
I'm an active participant in polyamorous forums and groups, offering advice and sparking debate.
I have a lot of experience and have done a lot of "the work". I'm sure I can help you with all you're going through as well.
testimonials
"I never imagined myself at 31 years old, rediscovering myself, expanding so many horizons.”
Luiza S. M.
“I was a little skeptical of [non-monogamy], as I only practically knew it in theory, but after the conversation we had I was able to see things in a lighter way, I broke down some barriers that could have been preventing me from meeting someone nice."
Pedro C.
“My first [event] was back in 2017... And from then on it was a rollercoaster of feelings... New experiences, paradigm shifts, a new view on things... I feel like I was able to become who I am today thanks to this..."
Anna Clara G.
“Telling you a little about my life, my love experiences..., and receiving your feedback that it seems like I'm on the right path... was exactly what what I expected from your [mentoring]: attentive listening, relevant notes, suggestions and correction/validation."
Pablo de A. S.
"It's great to be able to have support from a female perspective on non-monogamous relationships. She is very helpful and attentive and appears to have a lot of experience and understanding on the subject. I recommend the experience."
Jon G.
"A myriad of new terms, studies, a new way of seeing the world, relationships, society, women, and life. [Juliana's group] changed our way of seeing, thinking and acting. It changed mine a lot.”
Rodrigo S.
Your first session is my commitment to you, a gesture of support and empowerment, given freely and without expectation.
I believe that honest and clear communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, whether it's non-monogamous or otherwise. If you're ready to start working with me, great! Let's jump in!If you're still hesitant and have questions, schedule a discovery session and let's talk. This session is not a sales call; it's a genuine mentoring session aimed at getting to know each other better.During our time together, my priority is to understand your needs, desires, and goals for seeking mentorship. Likewise, I want you to have the opportunity to learn about me, my approach, and how I can support you in your journey.Compatibility is crucial in mentoring, just as it is in any relationship. That's why I don't believe in pressure or sales pitches. This session has no strings attached. You're free to end the session at any time, or if you're excited to continue, we can explore ongoing mentorship options together.
Schedule a Discovery Session
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Not sure if mentoring is for you? Still have questions? Send me a message and we'll figure it out.
Thank you
Thank you for reaching out. I appreciate your interest and will get back to you shortly to discuss how I can assist you further.
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POLYAMORY mentor
POLYAMORY CAN BE HARD
LET'S MAKE IT EASIER
Helping you navigate polyamory through personal growth.
Why You’re Struggling to Make Your Relationships Work
Jealousy is consuming you.
You don't know what your needs are.
You have trouble setting boundaries.
You’re frustrated by unclear agreements.
Conflict and misunderstandings are frequent.
You're stuck in old patterns.
Hi, I'm Juliana
I have over a decade of leadership in the non-monogamous community. I played a key role in forming one of Brazil's largest polyamorous communities and produced and hosted events for groups of 15 to 100 people. I also co-created the first social space in Brazil focused on the non-monogamous community, which became a national reference and inspired similar initiatives across the country.
I’ve been practicing non-monogamy since 2012, and through that time, I’ve learned a lot about communication, jealousy, and personal growth. I’ve faced many of the same challenges as my clients.I GET it!
Master Jealousy
Instead of feeling overwhelmed by jealousy, you’ll understand and process it, turning it into a tool for growth rather than conflict.
Set Unshakeable Boundaries
You’ll establish boundaries that protect your emotional well-being and create mutual respect between you and your partners.
Communicate
Like a Pro
No more frustrating conversations that lead nowhere. You’ll have the skills to clearly express your needs and desires.
Let's do the work!
1. Schedule a free mentoring session
It all starts with a conversation. In our initial call, we’ll discuss your challenges, goals, and whether my mentoring approach is the right fit for you.
2. Do the Work
Through personalized mentoring, we’ll dive into the key areas you need to address—communication, boundaries, jealousy management, and more. This is where the real transformation happens, as we tackle your unique challenges together.
3. Experience Personal Growth
As you do the work, you’ll notice a shift. With the tools and insights you’ve gained, you’ll experience healthier, more fulfilling relationships and the personal growth that comes with it.
"...expanding so many horizons.”
"I never imagined myself at 31 years old, rediscovering myself, expanding so many horizons.”
Luiza S. M.
"...I broke down barriers...”
“I was a little skeptical of [non-monogamy], as I only practically knew it in theory, but after the conversation we had I was able to see things in a lighter way, I broke down barriers that could have been preventing me from meeting someone nice."
Pedro C.
"I feel like I was able to become who I am today thanks to this..."
“My first [event] was back in 2017... And from then on it was a rollercoaster of feelings... New experiences, paradigm shifts, a new view on things... I feel like I was able to become who I am today thanks to this..."
Anna Clara G.
"...attentive listening, relevant notes, suggestions and correction/validation.”
“Telling you a little about my life, my love experiences..., and receiving your feedback that it seems like I'm on the right path... was exactly what what I expected from your [mentoring]: attentive listening, relevant notes, suggestions and correction/validation."
Pablo de A. S.
"I recommend the experience.”
"It's great to be able to have support from a female perspective on non-monogamous relationships. She is very helpful and attentive and appears to have a lot of experience and understanding on the subject. I recommend the experience."
Jon G.
"[Juliana's group] changed our way of seeing, thinking and acting. It changed mine a lot.”
"A myriad of new terms, studies, a new way of seeing the world, relationships, society, women, and life. [Juliana's group] changed our way of seeing, thinking and acting. It changed mine a lot.”
Rodrigo S.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I can’t afford a mentor?
I understand that cost can be a concern. Mentorship is an investment in your personal growth and your ability to navigate the complexities of polyamorous relationships. The insights and tools you gain can provide lifelong benefits, helping you avoid costly mistakes or emotional burnout. I offer options for different budgets, but I'm open to working with your specific needs.
Isn’t needing help with polyamory a sign that I’m doing it wrong?
Not at all! Polyamory presents unique challenges, and seeking guidance is a sign that you're committed to growing and improving your relationships. Even seasoned non-monogamous people encounter struggles like jealousy, time management, or boundary-setting. As someone who's been practicing non-monogamy for over a decade, I can help you address these challenges and grow both as an individual and within your relationships.
Can’t I just figure out polyamory on my own with free resources?
I offer many free resources that can certainly help, but it took me years to figure things out on my own. Mentoring fast-tracks your growth by pinpointing exactly where things can improve and providing focused advice, saving you years of trial and error. I also save you the time it takes to sift through endless information and research, offering clear, actionable steps specific to your situation.
How do I know mentoring will actually help me?
Mentoring is about real, actionable steps that lead to lasting change. Many of my clients have experienced significant breakthroughs in their relationships and self discovery. I combine practical tools with emotional support, giving you a solid foundation to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
My polycule is complicated. Can mentoring really help us?
No matter how complex your relationship structure is, mentoring can help you navigate it. Whether you’re managing multiple partners, nested relationships, or hierarchical dynamics, I have experience working with polyamorous and non-monogamous people in a wide variety of setups. I can help you untangle complicated situations and find clarity, balance, and harmony within your polycule.
What’s the difference between mentoring, coaching, and therapy?
Mentoring focuses on sharing lived experience and offering practical guidance specific to polyamory. Coaching is more goal-oriented, helping you achieve specific relationship outcomes. Therapy addresses deeper emotional or mental health issues, often dealing with past trauma or mental health conditions, and is conducted by licensed professionals.